up until this point, we were always the "newbies" in every swinging situation. people always showing us the ins and outs, answering all of our questions and having more experience than us. and then one lonely friday night with Y out of town, i chatted to M&B...

M&B: hello

me: hey, how r u?

M&B: we are just winding down after a pretty hectic day. We are pretty excited to have met someone already

me: i see. i love a good wind-down. you met another couple today?

M&B: No we haven't met anyone physically yet but you are the first people that we have contacted through this service.

me: OOOHHHHHH.....i see! wow, well, welcome to this wonderful world! are both of you there?

M&B: yes. how about you

me: this is alana. Y is out of town for the weekend :( im so lonely without him.

M&B: I bet when I work nights B gets pretty lonely too. I have a question can you explain what ' soft swapping means'.

and then all of a sudden, i was no longer the newbie...i was the teacher. the girl with experience. they could come to me to find out all their swinging needs!

me: hahaha, we actually just got that question answered last weekend for us! we have been looking for other couples for a few months and finally got up the courage to ask someone just now! too funny. good you ask now though!..a soft swap is where oral is involved, and the girls can usually play with each other, but there is no intercourse. full swap is switching partners for intercourse where you could be in the same room, separate or all playing together

M&B: thanks for giving us some insight.

me: so you guys are brand new then....what made you want to try this out?

M&B: Well I would love to see B getting pleasure from a women and B is Bi-curious so she is looking for a first time sexual experience with a women. We wanted to make some friends as well and we would see where it went from there. The soft swapping sounds pretty good to start.

me: :) i think i liked you guys right from the start because you sound exactly like us about 2 months ago!! i have always been bi curios...ive gotten to experience a little and really like it

M&B: Sounds like we have met a great couple to experiment with. You seem like you are easy going.

me: just always remember, in the end, you are doing this for you and your partner...never worry about anyone else’s feelings but you and your partners!

M&B: For sure, you are saying all of the right things.

me: yeah, we are very easy going. and are still quite new so willing to move slow! we like meeting new people too. we met a couple last a while ago that we hung out with till 5 in the morning, but we never touched each other...just talked all night in their hot tub! it was interesting and we got a lot of good stories from them...they swing all over the world! crazy!

M&B: WOW, Have you ever met any pushy people?

me: most couples in this lifestyle are pretty respectful, and no always means no. if you find a couple that doesnt understand that, avoid them. we have heard some bad stories. but everyone we have been around has been very respectful

M&B: sound cool. Do you like to talk to people you are interested in on MSN a while before you meet?

me: well, its hard to tell what people are really like on msn...and sometimes pictures lie! we like to chat for a bit and if everyone seems normal, we like to set up a no-pressure meet. like lunch where we all agree that nothing is going to happen that time. then we can go home after the meeting and talk it over before we jump into anything. we have also started going to some swinger clubs that are better now that we have a little experience and arent so scared. there you can meet people face to face and see exactly what you are getting!

M&B: That sounds like a very good idea. We have never been to a swingers club but would like to experience that.

me: well, we go to club wicked often now. if you wanted to join us one weekend we could show you around and chat a little there in person :) they also have an "on premise" area upstairs that people have sex all over the place. i suggest not trying that out on the first time unless you are comfortable with it. it is an amazing experience though. you can just watch and please each other if you choose, or join in with other couples. we went to the club a few times before we went upstairs cause i was a little apprehensive. but it was great. very free and easy and sexy.

M&B: WOW that sounds like an awesome time. We would love to come check it out and meet you and Y.

me: :) too bad hes not in town this weekend...they have themes every weekend and its topless night on saturday!

M&B: well I work this weekend but I'm off next weekend. If Y is in town next weekend we should check it out with you.

me: that would be nice!

M&B: Can you dance at this club? B and I love to dance. We might not get any dancing in because we will probably be preoccupied with everything that's going on.

me: hahaha...its pretty small, but you can definitely dance! Y will like you guys. he loves to dance...im not so good at it though! its actually not that crazy in the club area. its like a normal club but there will be a topless girl here and there, and some sexy outfits. its $20 per couple for the club. if you want to go upstairs its $60 i believe

M&B: $60 a couple for upstairs?

me: yeah...upstairs is where the real fun happens ;) but the club is ok too. especially the first time. i dont think we can ever go to a normal club again!

M&B: That awesome! You guys don't drink at all?

me: i do sometimes, but Y doesnt at all. some people call us "health freaks" but we are just very conscious of what we put into our bodies

me: well guys, i need to head to bed since i didnt sleep very well last night....you guys seriously sound a lot like us and i feel really good about you two! i hope we can chat and hopefully meet soon!

M&B: Talk to you later. Hope you sleep well.

me: heh..i hope so too! maybe next time we can exchange a pic or two :) g'night and sweet dreams.

M&B: see you. Kiss Kiss

Ok, so they seemed a little tame and slightly boring, but I really liked the fact that they were brand new to the lifestyle. Maybe we could be the ones unleash their wild side…

i wasnt feeling very sexy last night so decided to start with something simple; the collar bone. this is my favourite one that Y took, but i think im going to attempt it again this weekend.

please leave more suggestions in the comment box if you have any!!!

Philip Clark had a photo-challenge on his blog a while back and i wanted to do something similar with you guys, but a little different.

i recently bought a new camera. since day one ive wanted to have the look of my blog be more personal with perhaps some sexy pictures of my self. a leg, a silhouette or maybe even a breast. but i would really like to have it be more personal to you too! so i am going to have a photo-challenge of my own. tell me in the comments what you want to see. it could be pictures of me or it could be anything you find sexy really. (all anonymous though. no full face!) i would like some classy, artsy, dirty ideas to spruce up this space!

so, let me know what you would like to see and i will post my interpretation of what you have requested. then we can all decide what pics would be best to permanently display on my blog.

sound fun?

when we arrived at Jbob and A's house, the same routine as last time followed. Jbob went around the entire house shutting all the blinds tightly. A went to the kitchen to make some tea. Jbob came back with robes for all of us to wear and we all got naked during casual conversation and slipped into our robes. i wonder how many times they have done this routine? the hot tub was again strangely platonic considering there were 4 attractive naked people in it. the only form of debauchery that occurred was Jbob gently caressing my leg and for a split second he secretly reached over between my legs and ran one finger over my clit. it gave me an unexpected shiver of excitement. by the time we got out of the hot tub it was quite late and i figured there wasnt going to be any sex again that night...but then Jbob speaks up.

"hey. do you guys want to see my favorite porn?"

has that sentence ever NOT lead to sex?

i laugh. "why is it your favorite?"

"i dont know, its got everything. excitement, action, hot girls. it actually has a plot that is pretty good too!"

good plot in a porn? ok, now i gotta see this. "put it on!"

a little ways into the porn and it seemed like all other porn out there to me, but with a little bit of a higher budget. the lighting, set decoration and design were pretty damn good for a porn, but the bad acting oozed out like a cheesy filling. Y & i like the "real" porn. the armature stuff downloaded off the internet or even college fuck fest because it all feels more like real people. porns like Jbob's, with the fake boobs and thick make-up, dont seem real and arent as appealing to us. but none the less, there were people fucking on the big screen tv and Jbob started stroking himself and says, "baby. will you come give me head?"

i think thats a pretty good indicator that this wasnt going to be a sexless night.

A responds by giving him a look that implied she wasn't impressed with his blunt demands, but still crawls over to Jbob and throws a pillow on the floor to give her knees support while kneeling on the ground in front of him. "A can give 'porn star' head when shes in the mood." Jbob informs us then directs the conversation to A "you are so beautiful baby. common, suck it." she rolls her eyes and says "what am I? your whore?"

i am quite amused by both A and Jbob and how they react with each other and for a split second i forget about being turned on.

"hey alana, why dont you give Y head too?" Jbob asks and i snap out of 'amused analytical alana' back into 'lets get it on alana' i grab a pillow to cushion my knees and help A push the coffee table out of the way. then we both lick our boys hard. we are each on a separate couch which gives Y a good view of A's ass and Jbob a view of mine. its quite a similar scene as the first time we met Jbob and A, but instead of real people fucking all around us, there is cheesy porn in the background. A and I suck for a while until Y moans quietly that he wants to fuck me. i climb on top of him, not facing him (reverse cowboy i believe is the term for this position?) so that i can take in the sights of our friends together. he holds his hand high up around his cock so that i can only slip a tiny bit of him into me and he pulls out to teasingly rub my clit with his head. i get so angry when he teases me, but i love it all at the same time. he finally lets go and i sit in his lap letting him get as deep in me as he possibly can. i rock back and forth on him letting his cock get familiar with my insides as i watch A and Jbob swivel around into a 69 on the couch in front of me. A's hair covered most of her face, but once in a while she would run her fingers through her hair showing us how well she can deep throat. i start to ride Y, loving the sight thats in front of me. this is the first time that a woman has turned me on more than a man. i like both A and Jbob, but if i had to choose, i would definitely fuck her over him!

Jbob needed some water and kissed A and left the room for a moment. A made her way over to us. i rocked back and forth on Y again giving me the deep penetration and clitoral stimulation i wanted. A started caressing my legs and kissing me gently then kissed her way down to my perky little breasts and nipples. i lean back and kiss Y and try to position myself to give him a good view of what she was doing to me. there is nothing that can get me off quicker than simultaneous nipple and clit play and i almost instantaneously felt my body getting warmer and closer to orgasm. i rocked faster on Y. as A switched nipples she looked up at me and gave a cute yet devilish little smile. it sent me over the top and i came and twitched and moaned in delight.

i climbed off Y while Jbob was just coming back into the room to join the fun. Jbob looked confused as to why there wasnt anything going on at that very moment.

"did alana cum already? and i missed it!?"

"dont worry. i'll come again. im lucky like that"

Jbob grins and then turns his gaze to A. "you are so gorgeous. isnt she gorgeous?" he directs to us and Y and i both nod. Jbob and A start kissing and i feel Y pressing himself against me, still hard and wanting more. A takes a bit of control and brings Jbob down onto the couch and climbs onto of his instantly hard cock. Y directs me to the other couch and positions me on all fours facing our entertainment. he gives my ass a little slap and directs his cock straight into my pussy. we watch A and Jbob perform as they turn to watch us also. i found this experience slightly more intimidating than actually going upstairs at the club. it was a lot more intimate with just us two couples in the room but it was also more exciting since we all knew each other and were comfortable with each other before having sex in front of each other.

"i want you two girls to kiss" Jbob announces. A smiles at me questioningly like she is asking for permission. we lean in close over Jbob and gently kiss as the boys continue to fuck us. she was so gentle and so soft that it made the experience that much more sensual for me instead of purely erotic. dont get me wrong. i love i good hard fuck but the thing that turns me on the most is being totally and utterly relaxed. usually if im lightly tickled or getting my hair played with i cant help but create a wet spot in my pants. it creates a heavy yet light feeling in my entire body and heightens all sensations. A's kissing had this relaxing calming effect on me. i was getting the best of both worlds. being fucked hard from behind with Y's beautiful cock and being caressed sensually from the front with A's kissable lips.

we explored each others lips until Jbob couldnt take it anymore. A slid off of him and positioned herself between his legs to suck him once again. do you mind licking his nipples? she asked and i repositioned myself over his chest as we both brought him to orgasm.

Jbob needed another break after his fun and i moved back over to Y. A comes with me and heads for his nipples. "do you mind?" she asks as Y and i both hesitate. much to my dismay, he hates his nipples being played with.

"hes not a fan of the whole nipple thing" i say and she backs off. i feel bad for Y because i know he is probably aching for her to touch him, and for her to help me suck him, but they made it quite clear before that they do not do oral until they know a couple VERY well and we werent quite at that point. A positions herself behind me and while i start to pleasure him, she is kissing and rubbing my back, neck and shoulders. she instantly sends me back to my relaxed state and i wish she would move her hands down my back and slip her fingers around to my soaking pussy, and bring her other hand around play with Y's balls. maybe next time we will know them well enough to go farther with them.

When Jbob came back he was ready to go again and he came and sat next to Y on the couch. A heads back to her position on the floor in front of Jbob and works her magic at bringing him back into the game. i want Y inside me again and he gets up to enter me from behind while i move closer to A and Jbob, craving to have A's lips around mine again. i kiss her shoulder as she is performing her "porn star" blowjob on Jbob. shes circling her tongue around his head while keeping strong and sexy eye contact with him. my kiss on her shoulder catches his eye and he jesters her my way, to which i dont protest at all. her hand takes over where her lips left off on him while her lips once again find mine.

"i love watching these girls kiss." Jbob proclaims "i think its because you can tell that they both REALLY enjoy each other. its not just a 'show' or anything, you know?"

A and i both smile at each other in agreement and continue to taste each others mouths and bodies.

Y enters me from behind. its a 4 some experience that is quite a bit more tame than our first experience, but definitely more comfortable and enjoyable. Jbob's hand finds its way to my dangling breasts to tease my nipples while i continue to rub A's back and take every opportunity to wrap my tongue around hers when her lips arent wrapped around Jbob's cock. Y is behind me almost sending me into orgasm with every pump of his hips and i get even more excited when i see his hand make its way to A's back and down to her ass where he gives a little squeeze. his hand lingers around, feeling and lightly slapping her ass and then makes its way down to her wanting pussy.

i cant even remember who came at what point. it is now all just a beautiful blur of flesh and pleasure that i will remember for a long time to come.

by time we had all had our fill it was quite early in the morning and definitely time for us to head home. we helped clean up, drank a lot of water, got dressed and Jbob drove us home.

"we should definitely get together again soon" we all agree as we close the door and Jbob drives back home to his lovely A.

pretty good for a night i thought was going to be once again strictly platonic!

Hi Everyone,

Let me introduce myself. I'm Y, Alana's other half and partly the reason why she takes so long to post sometimes. Now I'm not the only reason. Alana is innately quiet lazy, which is the main reason why she takes so long to post. But in her defense posting takes a great deal of time for Alana. She first writes it all down in this book she has. She carries this book everywhere with grand intentions on writing in it all the time. Even on each and every trip we went on. Whether we were canoeing down the Spanish river or one of many road trips or camping at Sandbanks it always came. But even though it came, sadly it rarely ever ended up fuller from when we started. Those grand intensions faded away in the excitement of whatever we were doing. Life always seems to get in the way. And again.. Alana's quite lazy.. She's one of the most laid back people I know.. (Its great though, cause I'm anal as hell, but it all works out and balances us somehow...) So after she's finished putting down all her ideas into her little green book she then types it all into her computer. She's not the quickest at typing and also takes some care to turn her rough ideas to make them into the writing you all know. This all can take her a couple hours if it's a long enough post. Which takes her away from paying attention to me! I don't mind most of the time but I have been known to distract her occasionally and I'm sorry to all of you for that! I hope you all understand and if you saw what she looks like you would! So it all comes down to two things... Laziness mixed with a whole lot of distraction. But fear not... Now that summer is over the posts will likely start flowing again more regularly as most distraction slowly fades away with summer...

finally continued...

Y and i get prettied up for our date and at 7:25 A calls to let us know she is downstairs.

when we walk outside there is a black luxury car waiting for us with the driver waiting to open the door to let us in. when the door opens we are greeted by A's smiling face. "Jbob had to stay late at work so he will meet us at the restaurant in a little bit."

when we arrived at the restaurant hesitate, not knowing if i should wait for the driver to come open the door for me. i was never taught luxury car etiquette! the driver goes around to open A's door and i decide that it would be ridiculous to wait, so i open the door myself. Y does the same.

the restaurant is tiny, ornate and smells of incense. we sit down with enough time to chit chat and peruse over the menu before Jbob rushes in, apologizes for being late, kisses A on the cheek, kisses my hand, nods at Y proclaims he is starving and looks around as if looking to find a waitress to take his order this very instance. he is such a whirlwind of energy.

while we were chatting and waiting for the food, the subject of drinking came up and Jbob was astounded that we dont drink.

"you do this sober??" he asked in disbelief "like right from the start? werent you nervous getting naked with strangers without being drunk??"

"yeah, we do this sober. Y tried to get me drunk on new years to loosen me up, but we have been sober every other time"

"wow. we were both wasted our first time. i still usually have a few drinks no, you know, to lower the inhibitions..."

i guess Y and i dont have that many inhibitions.

the food was great once it arrived, but ethiopian does not have a slimming effect on me. it left me with a bloated belly and i wondered if tonight was the night we were going to end up fooling around with Jbob & A and i got a little nervous about showing of my newly formed belly. oh the stressed of being a swinging girl!

we finished our meals and Jbob paid for the entire bill. (yup, i could get used to this!) and they offered to give us a ride home.

i thought this would be another plutonic night out until Jbob asks "so...you guys want to come over for a hot tub?"

i dont think it is possible to have two naked hot tubs without getting a little frisky, is it?

even though my bloated feeling belly gave a loud digestive gurgle, my pussy started to tingle.

"sure. we could go for a hot tub"