T & L : the break-up #2
MSN conversation about 1 1/2 weeks after we met T&L:
T: helllllllloooooooooooo
T: sent the wink "Kiss"
me: hey
T: hows it going sexies?
me: tierd
T: why?
me: another late late night (blog note. you will hear about this exciting late night in a few posts from now!)
T: i guess you are feeling better then?
me: yeah
T: well, when are we going to see you guys again? :(
ok, so if there is a time to tell them how we really feel, this is it. imagine a 13 year old girl who is calling up the boy that she likes for the first time..."what do i say, what do i say!?" i start jumping around the apartment while Y looks at me like ive completely lost it. im a pretty calm and laid back person in most aspects of life, but apparently breaking up with people isnt one of my strong suits. after i jump around a little bit more, beg Y to tell me what to write, and beg him to write it so that i wont be the bad person (cause it really makes a difference) this is what we write:
me: well, we actually had a discussion about this.. .... we really enjoy your guys company, youre both really great people, but were just not sure that we want to have any more swinging experiences with you two.
see, sugar coated truth. thats a little easier to take than "Y would rather receive head from a hungry alligator"
T: any reason why
T: ?
and then we started writing in the third person so that they couldt really decifer who was typing..
me: well, alana really liked both of you and was really attracted to both also. but Y isnt really into the smoking and the drinking and just doesnt feel a connection. He definitely doesnt regret anything and did have a good time, its just not something he would like to do again. its just not what he is looking for or attracted to.
T: i see
and she didnt write back again. well, i figured that would be the end of that. they were probably mad and upset and offended and would never talk to us again.....
T: helllllllloooooooooooo
T: sent the wink "Kiss"
me: hey
T: hows it going sexies?
me: tierd
T: why?
me: another late late night (blog note. you will hear about this exciting late night in a few posts from now!)
T: i guess you are feeling better then?
me: yeah
T: well, when are we going to see you guys again? :(
ok, so if there is a time to tell them how we really feel, this is it. imagine a 13 year old girl who is calling up the boy that she likes for the first time..."what do i say, what do i say!?" i start jumping around the apartment while Y looks at me like ive completely lost it. im a pretty calm and laid back person in most aspects of life, but apparently breaking up with people isnt one of my strong suits. after i jump around a little bit more, beg Y to tell me what to write, and beg him to write it so that i wont be the bad person (cause it really makes a difference) this is what we write:
me: well, we actually had a discussion about this.. .... we really enjoy your guys company, youre both really great people, but were just not sure that we want to have any more swinging experiences with you two.
see, sugar coated truth. thats a little easier to take than "Y would rather receive head from a hungry alligator"
T: any reason why
T: ?
and then we started writing in the third person so that they couldt really decifer who was typing..
me: well, alana really liked both of you and was really attracted to both also. but Y isnt really into the smoking and the drinking and just doesnt feel a connection. He definitely doesnt regret anything and did have a good time, its just not something he would like to do again. its just not what he is looking for or attracted to.
T: i see
you see!? what does she mean by that? is she cool with it? does she hate us? why isnt she writting more than that?
me: ...we are both really sorry, and like we said before, we really like the both of you as friends
T: i see
what does she see???
T: well i'm shocked not really sure what to say
me: i dont know what to say either...except, im really glad that you were my first girl experience
and she didnt write back again. well, i figured that would be the end of that. they were probably mad and upset and offended and would never talk to us again.....
by dirtyalana @ 1:44 p.m.-
