first date 2

When we were almost finished devouring our meals, and a whole 45 mins after we were supposed to meet our first couple, two familiar faces walk into the restaurant. its them!! and all of a sudden the nervousness floods back. what do we say to them!? is it bad to start out a date with "what the hell took you so long?"

We all shake hands and introduce ourselves and to my surprise the conversation starts right away. no awkward silences. no shy hesitations. we talk about everything from our choice of restaurant, our careers, school, our experience with swinging and why we all wanted to get into it, how we fell in love and anything else that came up in our 2 hour lunch date. it was a great first meeting and really made me feel comfortable with the fact that swingers are normal people too! they were nice and shy and all round normal...just like us! but there was one problem...

"she looked like a troll!" Y said to me after we ended our meeting. i could tell as soon as they walked in that Y would not be attracted to her, which did ease my nerves right away since i knew he would not want to go further with them. but halfway through the date i started to wish that he did find her attractive since we all got a long great and i was quite attracted to the male half of the couple. (which doesnt happen that often as i am quite picky when it comes to men. even pickier when it comes to women!)

as we finished paying, the male half says " well i guess this is the awkward part eh!?" more that he knows...theres no un-awkward way to say "it was fun but shes a troll so we dont want to fuck you." instead i suggest that we go our separate ways to discuss with our partners to see how we feel about eachother.

they bought it. its much easier to "break up" with someone on msn....